So you’re a rat? I figured you were, now you feel guilty and you’re taking it out on everyone else.

If you work how can you spend all day and all night sending me comments and emails?

And you did send me an email, maybe you were too drunk to remember so I’ll refresh your memory:

rom Ashley Kemp
to redalertstips@gmail.com
date Tue, Aug 3, 2010 at 7:59 PM

Message body:
I seen where you still have a ad posted about terrence williams this happened 6 monthes ago. I think its inappropiate to let peopple talk so cruel to people thats not even here to defend there self. please take this down this is the father of my child and i dont like nobody talking badly about him. These people dont even know him. Everybody has a story behind everything they do. Thank you

You might be confused because this came via a contact form, but that’s still email.

Thanks for stopping by.

I do not know what Rob’s weight has to do with his opinion, or what you consider obese… wait, that’s right, who the hell cares?

People resort to remarks about the way a person looks when they are immature and lack the intelligence to debate about an issue.

You are in no position to tell someone how to earn a living. Blogging isn’t lazy. It is working in front of a computer, which is the exact same as every office job out there. By your logic, every person that has a desk job is lazy.

One thing that blogging won’t do is get you arrested for armed robbery. It is a legal form of employment that one can report on their taxes.

Only God can judge… and which god might that be? The one that seeks vengence against sinners? Well, not having sympathy for you isn’t a sin. Committing suicide, last I checked, was a sin in Christianity. Be careful before you throw the god card around. Trust me, god isn’t on your speed dial, waiting for the go-ahead from you to dole out vengence on who you want.

You would have been a more sympathetic figure if you had been more humble, had refused the stolen goods, or done anything to indicate that you recognize what your husband did was wrong and people have the right to acknowledge it was wrong.

The mental illness story isn’t going to garner you much sympathy. If you knew about it and didn’t get him help, then you are as much to blame for all of this, and that is why you’re angry and taking it out on everyone else. Even if he wouldn’t go to counselling, you could have had him committed. It would have been difficult, but it would have prevented a lot of tragedy. Then again, you took the goods, so the mental illness story probably isn’t true anyway.

For a better public relations spin, try being a bit more humble, start blaming it on the economy instead of mental illness, tell stories of him before the economy tanked, and start telling people you tried to stop it, refused the goods, or something that would give you anything similar to a moral leg to stand on before you go throwing stones at anyone else.

I’m not being mean. Mean would be calling them names, laughing at them, revelling in their pain, etc. Not feeling bad about an armed robber blowing his brains out is not the same thing as being mean. Not feeling sympathy for the people who let someone with a mental illness go untreated is not mean.

However, given the fact that the stolen funds were not refused by the wife, I’m less inclined to believe the story that he had a mental illness. I’m far more inclined to believe that the economy had more to do with this than mental illness. That still doesn’t make it right. It’s also a warning of what is coming as the economy declines.

I wonder if anyone commenting here has ever had a gun pointed at them. I have. It is an experience that stays with you for the rest of your life. Just because this guy didn’t actually pull the trigger does not make his crimes any less terrifying to his victims.

His wife can’t play the “poor widow” role because she was a party to it by accepting the money. She did not report him nor get him mental help. Instead, she accepted the stolen property. This is why she has no right to be upset over coverage of her husband’s suicide. She should be appologetic for his and her actions, not telling everyone what a great guy he was.

I know the economy is tough. That is still no excuse to steal from others and to do so under the threat of death. My husband was laid off from his job as an equipment operator in Jan of 2008 because of the economy. We have scraped, scrimped, gone without, and had to get very creative in order to raise income levels to support our family. We both started businesses, my husband took odd jobs, drove taxi, and was out there every single day applying for work. It took over 2 years before he got another one. THAT is what you do when times are tough. THAT is what a father is supposed to do- not become a criminal and then leave the child without a dad.

I feel very badly for the child, who is the only innocent in this matter. What a tragedy to lose her father, and what a horrible legacy to have in one’s family history.

And I consider myself more of a Ted Nugent/Alice Cooper tribute.

B)There’s no need to type my name in all caps. But thank you for considering it important enough to do so.

C) You mean “in depth” and I’m going to go ahead and say you probably have missed the idea behind the phrase “stoop low” as it regards to people making ends meet. Your degenerate ex sticking a gun in a teenagers face and telling that person they might die is stooping low, running a blog might be lazy, but it isn’t immoral.

D) You should probably look up “hypocrisy and “irony” to fully understand why my wife and I have been laughing since this comment was posted.

E) Not being a dwelling I don’t have a “resident” which would be someone who lives inside me. If you mean “residence” I live in a completely average sub-division three bedroom which looks like every other one in the area. I assume you saw my dashing Facebook profile photo and mistook that as being taken in my residence. It was actually taken in Costco, the food stand in the background should have tipped you off.

F)It’s ironic that person trolling a blog at 2:46 in the afternoon should tell me that I should get a job. But I guess you work nights, although the strip clubs do open early here.

G)Which is it, am I talking or blogging?

H) Are you really saying that adults think criminality is acceptable? I am “almost” forty and as I get older crime bothers me more, but that’s because I have morals.

I)Infidelity is another word I don’t think you know the meaning of. Having women who are either fans of my sites, fellow bloggers or just people I converse with online for various reasons (like the people from Pagans Against Child Abuse) is not infidelity unless I was nailing them, which I am not. I assume Terrence beat you for talking to guys or something so I won’t make fun of you for that.

J) Greenville and Mauldin are smaller than what? Why is that how you end this? I moved from the Bronx to Mauldin because it was a smaller town and had less crime. I don’t get why that’s your big card to “shut me up”

Anyway, you probably aren’t just getting started, I’ll likely ban you since you’re just rambling but please, send another comment. They are funny if nothing else.

A)Both women here and in emails they sent me did in fact attempt to justify his actions.

B)If he was a drug addict that would have been BETTER. Do you understand that? That a person who isn’t desperate or out of their mind doing something terrible (like TERRORIZING TEENAGERS AT GUNPOINT) is actually worse than a person who has some problem which drives them to do something they would not have otherwise done?

C) Most unemployed people don’t, in fact, pointy a gun at a trembling woman or child and tell them they’ll die if they don’t cooperate.

D) I don’t know if the mythical truck driver you’re talking about is on drugs, but again, a drug addict has an excuse for doing terrible things. It may not mitigate the need for justice, but at least they have some reason for their actions aside from being evil.

E) Why should I respect a person who doesn’t have any empathy for the victims of Terrence? Do you think about the ightmares they have after thinking they were going to die at the hands of a thug? How many of them quit and are now unemployed? Do you care about them at all?

I’d go on but I just read the part where you slander my family. Are you retarded? No one in my family has ever raped or molested anyone, because I don’t come from a family of meth using hillbillies like yourself.

Pulling a gun on someone and making them think that they may die isn’t a mistake by the way. You sound like a thug groupie.

And of course you end with the most wicked and vile sentence ever made Only God can judge. Funny because you just judged me but I guess I need to shove a pistol in some 17-year-old’s face to get some sympathy from you. If only God can judge I guess rapists, child molesters and murderers should all be released from prison. I guess Hitler can’t be called evil, nor can Mason and Dahmer? After all we are then judging.

Let me guess, you are or are blowing a felon?

To Jill and Ashley,
My heart and prayers goes out to you and your family. I pray for strength to get through this tragedy. Terrence is in a better place now looking down watching over you. He has been washed of all of his sins now and he can move on with the assurence that you and his child are ok. As for this blog, They are not his judge or his jury. ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE HIM!!!! They are ignorant and want to make you have hate in your heart just like they do. They Devil will fight but as long as you have the Almight God on your side you will always win. May God Bless your family.